And I’ve recently discovered a new one – playing the drums.
As Nat’s What I Reckon says in his brilliant book Uncook Yourself: A Ratbag’s Rules for Life:
“The drums – oh my god. There’s something about going BOOM, BAM, CRASH that makes me feel like a champion.”
He’s spot on.
The great thing is you don’t need to spend hundreds of dollars on a drum set or take lessons for years and years to learn how to play the drums. You can learn on a budget and best of all, you can learn fast.
Drummer Dave Grohl (member of Nirvana and creator of the Foo Fighters) is a perfect example of this. When Dave was learning how to play the drums as a teenager, he used fat marching sticks as drum sticks, set up pillows in the formation of a drum set and practised on that.
So before you go spending big bucks on a drum kit, it’s a good idea to be resourceful like Dave. Make do with what you’ve got.
This is what I did. I created my own drum kit with plastic buckets, an old water drum, broken symbols (to create a snare) and a karate belt (to tie around my waist).
Trust me, you can still make a lot of noise and have a heap of fun on a homemade drum kit.
It took less than 20 hours to go from being a total amateur to reasonably good at playing the basics on my drums.
How did I master the basics?
Here’s what I did . . .
When it comes to acquiring a new skill, Google, YouTube tutorials and online courses can help a lot. But when it came to drumming, I felt overwhelmed by all the resources online. I knew I needed special help, guidance and real time feedback from a teacher.
Luckily, I met someone who could teach me. My teacher was a self taught drummer who made his own drum kit and sticks out of recycled materials.
He showed me how to make my own drum kit and taught me a number of rhythms. I recorded him playing these rhythms so I could go back and practice while watching them.
If I wanted to learn the drums quickly, I knew I had to focus. If I was checking my phone every few minutes, it would mess with my ability to learn. Before every practice session, I would put my phone away (in a box in another room) so I could give drumming my full attention.
Visuals are incredibly powerful. As I watched the videos of my teacher playing, I dissected each rhythm by drawing pictures and making notes (e.g. “Bass, then snare, bass and then double snare”).
One of the rhythms I had to learn was called ‘Dingo’. It involves a vocal component of ‘Hey!’ and ‘Ho!’. To memorise this, I would imagine a dingo running around scaring my chickens, and me yelling at the dingo ‘Hey!’.
Once I had dual coded each rhythm, I would test myself. Before clicking play on the videos, I’d call out the name of a rhythm and have a shot at playing it. Then I’d check the video to see how I went. I made notes of any parts I needed to tweak and improve.
There were a number of different rhythms to learn and each one had a different name. Instead of just practicing one rhythm until I got it perfect, I would mix it up in a practice session. I would jump back and forth between different rhythms (this is what I had to do in real life).
Why did I do this? Because research shows that when you interleave it leads to more durable and flexible learning.
My life is pretty jam packed with activity so I needed something to remind me to practice – tiny habits would do the trick!
Creator of the Tiny Habits method Professor BJ Fogg says:
“With the Tiny Habits method, you focus on small actions that you can do in less than thirty seconds. You will quickly wire in new habits, and then they will grow naturally.”
I developed the following tiny habit to help wire in the habit of drumming after dinner:
After I put my dish in the sink, I will pick up my drum sticks.
For the first couple of weeks, I practiced every day for at least 2 minutes. If I felt like doing more, I would but that was considered a bonus extra.
I knew those little chunks of practice would add up to something solid and help me wire in the habit of drumming. And they certainly did.
If I didn’t have access to my drums, I would practice drumming on my thighs or a table.
Like anything in life, it’s more fun drumming with others. I convinced my husband to learn the drums with me. We’d give each other feedback and encourage each other. It was often the case that when my motivation was low, my husband had a little more motivation in the tank (and vice versa). We fed off each others energy.
Then we started drumming in a group with other beginners and wow – it sounded incredible! We felt empowered playing the drums and that made us want to practice even more.
When you take on learning a new skill, you need to step out of your comfort zone. And that requires courage. I had to get comfortable with the fact that I was going to suck at drumming for a period of time.
As psychologist Dr Ross Ellenhorn says:
“Speaking your first words requires courage. Taking your first step requires courage. Making friends requires courage too. Leaving home requires courage, getting a job requires courage, working toward a promotion requires courage . . . All these things require courage (some a little, many a lot) because you don’t grow automatically; you grow by deciding and choosing. And deciding and choosing are dizzying, scary things to do.”
We need to remind ourselves that all professionals started out as grossly incompetent. But the only way to go from being an amateur to good is to keep going.
Drumming may not be your shtick. And that’s okay. I never thought drumming would be for me until I tried it. And now I love it and I can’t stop!
You can apply these strategies to help you master any skill, whether it be learning a new language or how to cook a complex dish.
The key is to start thinking more strategically about how you can make your learning experience more enjoyable and effective. With the right approach and mindset, you’ll begin to see results quickly. And this will help boost your confidence and motivation to keep learning.
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Research shows active recall (aka retrieval practice) is a highly effective strategy for remembering information. This strategy will take your studies and your grades to the next level.
Active recall involves bringing information to mind without looking at your books and notes.
I have spent the last 30 days experimenting with this excellent learning strategy. In this blog, I’ll share what I did and how I kept the process interesting for my brain.
I no longer need to study for tests and exams.
So, why did I spend 30 days using active recall strategies?
In my line of work, I need to constantly come up with new and original content to present to students. I also need to memorise this content. Why?
Because if I was to read from a sheet of notes or text heavy slides that would be really boring for students. I want to connect with students and to do this, I have to be able to deliver the content off the top of my head with speed and ease.
This is where active recall enters the picture.
Active recall helps to speed up the learning process. It allows you to learn more in less time.
Below I share some of the ways I use active recall to learn new presentation content. Keep in mind, you can use all of these strategies to prepare for an upcoming test or exam.
Whiteboards are wonderful learning tools. Here’s how I use a whiteboard to do active recall . . .
I push my speech notes to the side, so I can’t look at them. Then I grab a marker and say to myself, “What can you remember? Go!”.
I write out everything I can remember on the whiteboard. Once I’ve exhausted my memory, I pick up my notes and check to see how I went (using a red marker to make corrections).
No whiteboard? No problem!
I pick up a pen and sheet of paper and start scribbling out whatever I can remember on the topic. When I get stuck, I pause and take a few deep breaths as I try to scan my brain for the information.
I regularly remind myself that it is okay to not remember the content. “This is how the process goes!”, I say to myself. There is no point beating myself up. That only leads to feelings of misery and not wanting to do active recall practice.
After having a shot at it, I take out my notes, pick up a red pen, and begin the process of checking to see how I went.
Sick of writing? I get it.
Try drawing out the information instead. Alternatively, you can use a combination of words and pictures, which is what I often do.
Grab a blank piece of paper (A3 size is best) and create a mind map of everything you can remember on a topic (no peeking at your notes). Then check your notes or the original mind map to see what you remembered correctly and incorrectly.
Writing and drawing out information can take time. If you want to speed up the process, you can talk to yourself.
But don’t do this in your head. It’s too easy to just say “Yeah, yeah, I know this stuff!”. You need to speak it out loud as this forces you to have a complete thought. Then, check your notes to see how you went.
The only downside with this approach is you don’t have a tangible record of what you recalled, which brings me to the next strategy . . .
I make videos of myself presenting the content (without referring to my notes). Although I use special software and tools to make my videos, you don’t need any fancy equipment. Your phone will do the job. Here’s what you can do . . .
Set your phone up so the camera is facing you. Now hit the record button and tell the camera what you’re going to do active recall on. Have a shot at explaining the idea. Then stop recording and hit the play button.
Watching yourself struggle to remember information is often hard viewing. But this is where it’s super important to double down on telling yourself kind thoughts (e.g., “I’m still learning this content. It’s going to be rusty and feel clunky – that’s okay!”).
You need to take a deep breath and keep watching because the video will give you valuable feedback.
For example, if you stop midsentence and you don’t know how to proceed, that tells you something: you don’t know this stuff so well! Make a note. This part of the content needs your attention.
Hand your notes over to a friend, parent, or sibling. Now get them to ask you questions on the content.
I sat with my mum and showed her a print out of my slides for a new presentation. The slides were just pictures (no text).
As I went through the slides, I explained the ideas to mum. I made notes of any sections I was rusty on. Mum also asked lots of questions, which allowed me to think more deeply about the content.
When it came crunch time (a few days before the final presentation), I printed out my presentation slides (16 per page) and used each slide as a prompt. I’d look at the slide and say, “What do I need to say here?”.
Sometimes I wrote out what I’d be saying in relation to each slide (without looking at my notes). Then I checked my original notes to make sure I hadn’t forgotten anything.
It’s really important that you don’t skip the stage of checking to see how you went, especially as you become more confident with the content.
At times, I found myself thinking “I know this stuff! I don’t need to check my notes” but then another part would say, “You better just check . . . just to be on the safe side”.
I’m glad I forced myself to check because more often than not I would discover that I had missed a crucial point.
Zines are cute little booklets you can create on any topic you like. They are fun to make, so I thought I’d try making a mini zine on the main points of some new content I had to learn.
I folded up an A4 page into a booklet and then I sketched out the main points on each panel.
I create a deck of flashcards on some key ideas (question on one side and the answer on the back) and then I test myself with them.
I read the question and before flipping the card, I write out the answer on a sheet of paper or say it out loud. Then I check to see how I went.
The beauty of flashcards is they are small and portable (they can easily fit in your pocket or bag). Whenever you have a spare minute or two, you can get a little active recall practice in.
It’s not enough to do active recall just once on the content you need to learn. For best results, you want to practice recalling the information several times over a period of time.
I didn’t follow a strict schedule for the 30 days. I had my notes for each important chunk of information I had to learn pinned to eight different clipboards.
Every morning, I’d pick up a different clipboard and I’d practice that specific content. I knew as long as I’d had a good night’s sleep in between practice sessions that the information was being strengthened in my brain.
Doing active recall is a bit like doing a high intensity workout: it can be exhausting. But you must remember, just like a high intensity exercise session is an effective way to train and get fit, active recall is an effective way to learn. Unlike less effective strategies (e.g., rereading and highlighting), you can learn a lot in a short space of time with active recall.
The key is to expect the process to be a little uncomfortable. Don’t fight the discomfort. If you trust the process and persevere, it won’t be long before you begin to see amazing results.
Just because active recall is challenging to do that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun with it.
Using a combination of different active recall strategies is one way to keep things fresh and interesting for your brain. But you may wish to try the following things to add a little boost of fun to your active recall sessions:
• Use a different type of pen
• Use a different coloured pen
• Change the type of paper or notebook you use (e.g., instead of using lined paper, use blank A3 paper)
• Incorporate movement into your active recall sessions (e.g., walk and test yourself with some flashcards)
• Change your study environment (e.g., go to the library or study outside)
Like I said, active recall is challenging to do, especially when you first start learning new content. You can feel awkward and clumsy. For this reason, it’s easy to make excuses to get out of doing it (e.g., “I’m too tired”, “I’m not ready to do it”, and “It’s not the right time”).
This is where you need to harness the power of habits.
Find a set time in your day to do a little active recall practice. For instance, during my 30 days of active recall, I scheduled my practice sessions for first thing in the morning. I knew after I washed my face, I would sit down to practice.
Incorporating active recall into my morning routine worked really well for me. I was getting the hardest thing done first thing in the day. And once it was done, I could relax. It was done and dusted!
At a certain point, I became more confident with the content and I found I was on a roll. I felt motivated to do active recall.
This is when I started to look for spare moments in the day to squeeze in a few extra mini practice sessions.
For example, one day I found myself waiting in a car. I grabbed a paper shopping bag and started scribbling out the content onto the bag. As soon as I got home, I checked the shopping bag against my notes.
I hope you can see that there’s no one set way to do active recall. This is a highly effective strategy you can be creative with. As long as you’re testing yourself and checking to see how you went, you can’t go wrong.
And if you do make a mistake? It’s no big deal. If you check to see how you went, you won’t embed the error in your long-term memory.
Study is such a vague term.
Many students know they should study, but they’re not exactly sure what study is and what they should be doing.
This is a problem.
If you don’t know what study is and what effective study looks like, chances are you probably won’t be able to do it.
You’ll be winging it.
How can you develop a solid study habit?
I’m going to breakdown what study is and how you can study in the most effective way to optimise learning. I’ll also share a simple way to combat procrastination and kick-start your study sessions.
Study is where you spend time understanding ideas. It also involves cementing ideas into your memory.
Study is different from collecting information (e.g., downloading articles, buying books, and saving videos to watch later). Study involves taking that information, spending time trying to understand ideas, and making connections between different ideas.
Let’s be clear . . .
Study is different from working on homework and assignments.
Homework and assignments are relatively straightforward. The teacher tells you exactly what you need to do. If you’re not sure what to do, you can ask for clarification.
Study is not so clear cut.
Unless you have a private tutor, a friend, or teacher who spells out what you need to do in your study sessions (e.g., “Go test yourself with this flashcard deck tonight and then test yourself again in two days’ time”), no one is telling you what to study and how to do it. This is something you need to figure out for yourself.
The good news is there are simple things you can do to help you pinpoint what you need to study (more on this shortly).
You will forget most of what the teacher says in class unless you make an effort to retain it. This is why study is so important. Study is what embeds ideas into your memory.
In psychology, there’s a concept known as the Forgetting Curve.
The idea is simple: information leaks out of your brain over time. But by studying, you can slow down the rate of forgetting and even interrupt it completely.
Most of us have unrealistic expectations when it comes to learning new ideas and skills.
A lot of students expect learning to be fast and easy like in the science fiction film The Matrix.
There’s a famous scene in The Matrix where Neo gets plugged into the ‘Knowledge Upload Machine’. A floppy disk with combat skills is inserted into the machine and Neo rapidly acquires all the skills of jujutsu.
Many of us want instant results like Neo. If we can’t understand something straight away or nail the skill the first time, we give up.
What do we do instead?
We run to things that deliver instant gratification (e.g., TikTok, video games, and YouTube). These things bring us temporary relief from the negative feelings and discomfort that arise when we are faced with challenging work.
But they also take us further away from our goals.
Here’s the reality of study . . .
Study isn’t easy.
It takes work.
It takes time.
But if you can get yourself to sit down and do a little bit of study every day, you’ll see that over time all those study sessions will add up to something solid.
It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking of study as being one giant overwhelming task. This makes the work feel scary and extracts all the fun from the process.
When we see study as being overwhelming, we feel stressed and when we feel stressed about any task, we are more likely to procrastinate.
So, let’s break the process down into more concrete simple tasks to make it seem more manageable and less threatening.
Before you sit down to study, set yourself up with the things you need to learn. Get out your pens, paper, notes, textbook, flashcards, a glass of water, post-it notes, noise blocking earmuffs/headphones, etc.
Is there anything that could distract you when you study?
Deal with distractions from the outset. Create a barrier between you and Big Tech (this way it will be hard to run to the fun stuff when things get tricky with your work).
The simplest and most powerful thing you can do is take your phone and place it away from your body in another room. Turn it off or put it on silent.
If there is any visual clutter in your space, collect it up in a box and put it in another room. Being surrounded by piles of clutter can increase your stress levels and make it hard to focus.
Setting yourself up is an important first step for several reasons:
1. It will help you get into a state of flow with your learning;
2. You’re warming your brain up and mentally preparing it to do the work; and
3. You’ll be less distracted which will allow you to learn more in less time.
Once you’ve set yourself up, this bring us to the next step . . .
Select a subject and then ask yourself these simple questions:
1. What didn’t I understand in class today?
2. What topics were confusing?
3. Where are the gaps in my knowledge?
These questions can be difficult to answer several hours after a class, especially if you didn’t take any notes in class.
This is why it’s a good idea to scribble down on a post-it note anything you don’t understand in class. This post-it will help guide your study sessions later in the day.
If you can’t answer the above questions, here are some ways you can gain clarity on what you need to study:
• Check the unit content section of your syllabus. Focus on the content you have already covered in class. If any words are unfamiliar or confusing, that’s a clue you need to study those ideas. Why? Because you’re going to be assessed on this content at some point in the future.
• Test yourself with a practice test, past exam paper, or flashcards. Stumped by a question? There you go! That’s a sign you don’t understand this particular topic so well.
When you realise you’re a bit rusty on a concept or don’t understand something, don’t feel bad. Instead, write the concept on a post-it note and tell yourself “Good job!” You’ve just pinpointed something to study. You’re one step closer to getting a better understanding of the content.
You’ve figured out what you need to study. Now it’s time to decide on the best strategy to learn the content.
The strategy you select will depend on where you’re at on your learning journey and what you need to be able to do with the content.
I see learning as being made up of two distinct parts:
• Part 1: You first need to understand the information and make sense of it
• Part 2: You need to commit the information to memory so you can easily retrieve it when you need it (e.g., in a test or exam)
Doing part 1 well will help you with part 2 (remembering the information). But it won’t be enough to cement the ideas into your memory. You’ll need additional strategies for this.
Here are some ideas to help you with each part of your learning journey . . .
When you are trying to understand a topic
• Grab a sheet of A3 paper and draw out the ideas as you read
• Watch an animated video explaining the topic
• Ask for help from an expert (e.g., teacher), friend, or Google
• Access children’s books or graphic novels on the topic
When you need to remember information on a topic
• Do a practice test
• Teach a friend, a pet, or the wall
• Write or draw out as much as you can remember
• Record yourself explaining an idea
If you want to remember something, you need to practice remembering that information.
It’s okay to incorrectly recall the information but it’s critical that you find out what the right answer is immediately. If you do this, you won’t embed the incorrect information!
Steer clear of studying in the following ways:
• Passively rereading your books and notes
• Highlighting your notes
• Copying out your notes
• Summarising your notes or a chapter (this is worth doing in the early stages of learning something new but it’s not a good way to prepare for a test or exam).
These are what I call ‘Feel Good, Get Nowhere’ study strategies. They feel good to use because they’re easy. But they get you nowhere because they’re not very effective ways to learn.
We live in an environment that has trained us to seek out pleasure and immediate gratification. This makes sitting down to study incredibly difficult for a lot of people.
Study forces us to face up to the fact that we don’t know everything and/or we may suck at some things (at least to begin with).
This explains why you probably won’t feel comfortable when you first sit down to study. You’ll feel the urge to distract yourself. But resist the urge.
Sit with the discomfort. Don’t run from it. Push through it.
Use an electronic timer to time your study sessions (25 – 45 minutes). This way your brain knows there’s an end point and you won’t be stuck in the discomfort forever.
When the timer goes off, give yourself a break. These breaks will help you to mentally re-energise.
A recent study from the University of Sydney confirmed this. Researchers found taking a five-minute unstructured rest break improved students’ ability to focus and learn.
Force yourself to step away from your computer screen and go outside. Look up at the sky and some trees. If you can, add some movement into your breaks.
You are not a machine. In order to engage in quality study, you need to take regular breaks.
We’ve just broken down study sessions into five simple steps:
Step 1: Prepare your environment
Step 2: Pinpoint what you need to study
Step 3: Choose your study strategy
Step 4: Embrace the pain and go!
Step 5: Take a break
Your first few study sessions will require a bit of willpower to carry out. But why would you want to rely on your willpower reserves all the time?
That’s far too draining.
This is where creating a study habit can help to streamline the process and conserve your mental energy.
Most of us have easy access to an abundance of endless entertainment options. There are many cues in our environment that remind us of the fun things we could be doing instead of study.
If you can establish a study habit, you eliminate all these options from your life for that part of your day.
Once you decide when and where you’re going to study, you’re no longer overwhelmed by all the choice. Your brain knows exactly what it needs to do.
Here are some examples of tiny study habits:
1. After I have a snack, I will take my phone and place it in another room (on silent).
2. After I finish dinner, I will take out my flashcards and place them on my desk.
3. After I unpack my bag, I will grab a post-it note and ask myself “What didn’t I understand in class today?” I will write down one thing.
4. After I have a shower, I will place my textbook on my desk.
5. After I hear a concept I don’t understand, I will write it down on a post-it note.
6. After I have pinpointed what I need to study, I will ask “Which strategy will I use to learn this?”
7. After I hear the timer go off, I will get up and go outside.
These study habits are tiny but that’s the whole point. When we are starting out, we keep the study behaviour small so it feels fun and easy for the brain.
“Study” can sound mighty grim. It can bring to mind images of staying up late into the night cramming. It can feel repetitive, dull, and pointless.
“Study” sounds like what your teachers and parents want you to do. It doesn’t sound like something you’d do for fun.
Frankly, the term “study” comes with a lot of baggage.
But that’s okay. There’s no reason why you need to use the word.
You can create a mind map or test yourself with a flashcard desk without calling it “study”. Just do the tasks you need to do to understand and remember the information. There’s no need to name the tasks as “study”.
If you do want to call it something, try using a fun and playful term that has no baggage. For example, you could frame study as doing bicep curls for your brain.
Think about the things you are good and confident at doing now. What were you like when you first started? You probably weren’t great!
But you kept at it and over time, you got better. Your skills and confidence developed.
The same thing applies with study. You’re not going to be amazing at studying to begin with. You’re going to feel awkward and clumsy as you wrestle with new ideas. But cut yourself some slack.
Approach your study sessions as mini experiments. Go into them thinking, “Let’s test out this strategy and see how it goes”. If it doesn’t work, you can try again or try something different in your next study session.
It’s clichéd but it’s true.
I’ve experienced this in my own life.
I went from being fluent in Italian to barely being able to string a simple sentence together because I didn’t speak the language for over 10 years.
When I was in high school, I loved learning Italian. Because I loved this subject, I worked hard at it. But it didn’t feel like work. It was more like play.
In my spare time, I watched as many Italian films as I could from the video store (there was no Netflix or YouTube back then). My favourite film was the classic Cinema Paradiso.
On Friday nights I’d order a pizza from the local pizza shop and I’d play Italian card games with my friends. Then at the end of year 11, something incredible happened . . .
I was selected to go on a student exchange to Italy. I lived in a small village in the south of Italy called Spinazzola for two months.
This village was unlike anything I’d ever experienced. The people were fully alive and passionate about life.
At first, I thought everyone was arguing all the time. But that’s how the people of Spinazzola communicated. They threw their hands in the air, spoke loudly, and were wildly expressive. They lived intensely.
This little village had some pretty quirky traditions. One tradition was the evening passeggiata.
Passeggiata means ‘a walk’ or ‘stroll’ in Italian. This tradition involved getting dressed up in the evening and going out onto the main street. The whole village would come out (young and old). My friends and I would link arms and we’d walk up and down the main street.
We’d stop and chat to people and then we’d move on and stop and chat to someone else. We’d walk up the main street and down the main street . . . up and down . . . up and down . . . everyone was doing this. Walking up and down the street.
At the time, I remember thinking “Why are we walking up and down the same street? What’s the point of this?”
The point was connection.
The point was to create a sense of community.
The point was to create strong relationships in the village.
All that walking and talking paid off. I made new friends, got some exercise, and improved my Italian.
By the time I graduated from high school, I could confidently read, speak, and write in Italian.
But my life got busy. And I stopped speaking Italian.
At the time, I wasn’t too fussed about this. People said to me:
“Don’t worry Jane, it’s all still in there. If you go back to Italy, it will all come rushing back. You’ll be able to speak the language again!”
Now in psychology class at university, I learnt there are limits to the human memory. If you don’t retrieve a bit of information from your brain for a period of time, that information will eventually drop out of your long-term memory.
But for some reason, I foolishly believed my Italian was still stored away in my brain.
Well, that idea was busted a couple of years ago.
One morning, I woke up and I felt this desire to start speaking Italian again. But I didn’t have the time or money to travel to Italy (plus I couldn’t justify the emissions).
So, how could I practice speaking Italian without leaving the country?
I organised an Italian Speaking Dinner Club in my local community. I called it the Ci Troviamo Dinner Club.
I booked a table at an Italian restaurant. I then invited two native Italian speakers to come along to the dinner (I offered to pay for their meals). I also invited people from my local community who wanted to practice speaking Italian (“All levels welcome!”).
I spent a lot of time promoting the club but very little time practising my Italian leading up to the first dinner. I was thinking, “No worries. It’s all still in there!”
I’d arrive at the Italian restaurant.
My Italian would suddenly kick in.
I’d be conversing fluently in Italian.
I arrived at the dinner.
The native Italian speakers started talking to me (and they were talking really fast!).
I asked them to slow down but I realised I still had no idea what they were saying.
I struggled my way through the dinner trying to keep up with the conversation.
When I got home I had the painful realisation that my Italian wasn’t ‘still in there’. My Italian had said “Arrivederci!” (Goodbye!) many years ago. A huge chunk of vocabulary and phrases had dropped out of my long-term memory.
But then I did something that made things even worse . . .
My mind was filled with thought such as “Why did you let your language skills go?” and “All those years of training down the drain!”.
I felt disheartened. In fact, I felt so bad I couldn’t bring myself to practice my Italian.
But I still continued to organise and attend the dinner club (it was really popular).
The problem was I was stuck in a negative thought pattern. Every time I went to open my mouth to say something in Italian, it was a painful reminder of how I’d let my language skills go.
Six months later, I stopped running the Italian dinner club. I said RIP to Italian.
But now, with a little distance and perspective, I can see where I went wrong.
Speaking a language is a skill but it’s not like riding a bike. You don’t just learn a language, put it away for 10 years, and then magically pick it up again.
Memory champion and researcher Dr Borid Konrad says in his course SuperBrain! that it’s a common misconception that once information goes into your long-term memory, it stays there forever. He says we are forgetting stuff all the time.
Like anything in life, languages need to be practiced, otherwise you’ll forget them. After 14 years of not speaking Italian, it was hardly surprising the only things I could remember were the absolute basics that have been drilled into me since primary school (e.g., numbers, simple phrases, and greetings).
If you want anything to stay in your long-term memory, you need to bring that information to mind. Using effective learning strategies, such as active recall and spaced practice, is the best way to do this.
If I could travel back in time and do things differently, every year I would have scheduled in 2 to 3 catch ups with native speakers, watched a few Italian films, and called my Italian host family to say hi.
This probably would have required less than 10 hours to do per year but it would have kept the Italian language alive.
Now it’s back to learning the basics. And let me tell you, starting from scratch is time consuming!
But I’ve made peace with my rusty language skills. I know if I’m patient, set aside the time to practice each day (even just 5 minutes), and lower my expectations, I’ll be speaking Italian confidently again.
But I’m under no illusion that my Italian will come rushing back into my brain just like that!
Instead of beating myself up, I am now putting my time and energy into exploring effective ways to learn languages.
Here are three things I’ve been looking into and experimenting with to resurrect my Italian:
Memrise is a fun online learning system that specialises in languages. It focuses on helping people to learn conversational language skills and it does a brilliant job at this.
It’s no surprise this app was founded by a cognitive scientist and memory champion (Ed Cooke) as it incorporates two highly effective learning strategies from cognitive psychology: spaced practice and active recall.
The Memrise algorithms predict when a term or phrase is likely to drop out of your long-term memory. When this happens, it brings it up for you to do active recall.
I highly recommend checking out this free app.
If you have access to Netflix or other streaming services, why not try watching an episode of a show either dubbed or with sub-titles in the foreign language?
This isn’t possible for every show or movie, but there are many shows to select from.
For instance, if you have Netflix, simply select on Audio & Subtitles, select the language you are learning and Netflix will bring up all the shows that are either contain sub-titles, are dubbed or recorded in the foreign language.
When you watch Netflix in this way, not only can you improve your language skills but you can save yourself a lot of time. How?
Because you’re less likely to binge on a series.
Unless you’re fluent, listening to a show in another language requires significant brainpower! After watching one episode, you’ll probably want to take a break.
If you want to practice speaking in a foreign language, you can find a speaking buddy on italki. When I was browsing through this website, I saw I could book a speaking session (one hour) with an Italian native speaker for as little as $5US.
I haven’t yet used this service, but I’m keen to. I’ve set myself a goal of booking a session in 3 months time. I’ll let you know how it goes!
Learning a language requires time and effort. And keeping that language in your long-term memory requires work, too.
If you’re learning a language, don’t drop the ball like I did. Find fun ways to immerse yourself in the language. Keep it alive. Because if you don’t use it, you’ll lose it.
Dr Jane Genovese delivers interactive sessions on learning to learn, combating procrastination, exam preparation, how to focus in the age of distraction, habit formation and much, much more!
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